tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post4472055677330678578..comments2023-10-21T05:17:35.879-05:00Comments on A Misfit's Musings: Loneliness is contagious right????Misfit4Lyfehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02225180298076395439noreply@blogger.comBlogger43125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-61866993567544658952008-12-02T07:48:35.000-06:002008-12-02T07:48:35.000-06:00^5 ERB I've learned a lot about myself as well...^5 ERB I've learned a lot about myself as well. Honestly I say it's a time to truly learn who you are, and to take stock. During the times I've been on my own, I did a lot of self reflection, reading of some good books (self-help) and to be honest I feel because of the way I am it's one of the reasons I don't settle, and just let anyone share my time, space, and body!! Call it picky, but dang it I won't settle and end up all miserable like some of the other ladies I know.TNP ATLhttp://tnpatl.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-6717978741026402142008-12-02T04:54:36.000-06:002008-12-02T04:54:36.000-06:00ITS MORRRRRING!!!ITS MORRRRRING!!!THE QUEEN ~Incomparably~http://sistahgurl.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-21423678549702507172008-12-02T04:54:15.000-06:002008-12-02T04:54:15.000-06:00MAN!!! Did i ever!!! LMAOOOMAN!!! Did i ever!!! LMAOOOTHE QUEEN ~Incomparably~http://sistahgurl.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-78603969736948246162008-12-01T16:32:24.000-06:002008-12-01T16:32:24.000-06:00"Lord...Forgive Them...Even If They Don't..."Lord...Forgive Them...Even If They Don't Ask You To...Forgive Them"...I say that all the time it seems. Family...one of the few things that we can't choose for ourselves...if we could...both our last names would probably be Gates. My Thanksgiving ended with me having a high fever...and when I woke up this morning...fever gone...I said to myself..."Maybe the blue lights were just a dream". They weren't.Lisa Yhttp://emotionalblonde.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-83961100766230857032008-12-01T14:59:25.000-06:002008-12-01T14:59:25.000-06:00Girl family will do this to you. Before you know i...Girl family will do this to you. Before you know it you'll be doubting everything about yourself foolin with family. It sounds like you just had a GOOD dose of family this holiday. Get around your positive friends and call the family to say you love them every so often.opti mistichttp://msoptimistic.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-49816298767794187182008-12-01T14:47:21.000-06:002008-12-01T14:47:21.000-06:00he isnt looking for a woman
widowed, no kids, only...he isnt looking for a woman<br />widowed, no kids, only child<br />just needs a friendNina Locahttp://ninaloca.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-17637463705406710812008-12-01T14:46:46.000-06:002008-12-01T14:46:46.000-06:00when my 13 year old was 2 she fell and hit her tee...when my 13 year old was 2 she fell and hit her teeth on concrete stairs<br />i had no car<br />i called my mother to take me to the ER<br />mom came, saw kid, left to go to her dentist apt saying "call a cab or 911"<br /><br />2 years ago, bladder infction. called mom to watch kids- NO. i'm pissing blood. so i call bf to take me to ER<br />mom calls later to see if i was gonna make the 6 hour trip to see my son<br /><br />so u knowNina Locahttp://ninaloca.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-66110793635924561272008-12-01T14:25:50.000-06:002008-12-01T14:25:50.000-06:00Looks like you have gotten some really good advice...Looks like you have gotten some really good advice already. Been where you are and got over it. If it helps you to blog about it, then cool. I found it to be cheap therapy and it helped me to see ME in what I was dealing with and how to get past it all. Sometimes we put the world on our shoulders when that job wasn't even assigned to us. I hope you take some of the advice already given and that you find the closure you need in this situation.Lee- Leehttp://satisfactionseeker.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-2010917477414917942008-12-01T14:14:31.000-06:002008-12-01T14:14:31.000-06:00I can't reply the way I want via phone...but I...I can't reply the way I want via phone...but I will say that from what I know...you are agreat mother, and a good woman. Don't let otherfolks issuescontaminate ur spirit. You know that its not you...just remind urselfthat mini queen already has it 1000xbetter than you...you can be alone without being lonely...but uits something you have to kinda learn. Just maintain ur focus and don't lose ur faith *huggin u with teary eyes*Starr Dustthttp://starrdustt.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-6863617920366043942008-12-01T14:13:38.000-06:002008-12-01T14:13:38.000-06:00omg...I bet that was a trip.omg...I bet that was a trip.erb 1http://erb1.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-70173286059972172212008-12-01T14:09:08.000-06:002008-12-01T14:09:08.000-06:00I am a bit of an introvert too. I have forced mys...I am a bit of an introvert too. I have forced myself over the past few years to be more outgoing and less apprehensive of people I don't know well. I don't have to know them well to appreciate them.<br /><br />But I have learned a lot about ME in my alone time. I am truly the person that I want to be, influenced by few others. I don't feel like I have to be more like anyone else, and it doesn't bother me that someone isn't like me.<br /><br />I know what I like, and I know what I want. That is what alone time can give you, if you don't make it something ugly. <br /><br />Lisa, use that alone time to be a better you so when the time is right you present the best you to people who are important (everybody isn't important though, lol).erb 1http://erb1.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-81017939318460600022008-12-01T14:01:40.000-06:002008-12-01T14:01:40.000-06:00 noooo, but your mama didnt tell you she couldnt w... noooo, but your mama didnt tell you she couldnt watch the kids cuz she had to go feed the hungry!!!! shit, i keep missing work, i am gonna be hungry! lmaooo<br /><br />but damn, you didnt call him did you??? lmaooTHE QUEEN ~Incomparably~http://sistahgurl.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-90885338580464210312008-12-01T13:59:30.000-06:002008-12-01T13:59:30.000-06:00least your mama didnt set u up with a 68 year old
...least your mama didnt set u up with a 68 year old<br />least u didnt call himNina Locahttp://ninaloca.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-5007826514410539142008-12-01T13:54:03.000-06:002008-12-01T13:54:03.000-06:00I totally agree with JT.
Anyone who is what I lik...I totally agree with JT.<br /><br />Anyone who is what I like to say a disruption to my spirit will find themselves out of my life QUICK!! I don't look back either. I don't feel sadness or anything. It's relief they are no longer in my life.TNP ATLhttp://tnpatl.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-44611894882310239142008-12-01T13:45:31.000-06:002008-12-01T13:45:31.000-06:00definitely doing number 1, number 2 gonna take me...definitely doing number 1, number 2 gonna take me a minute. been working on that one for a minute.<br /><br />*sneaks another hug*THE QUEEN ~Incomparably~http://sistahgurl.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-58581422721398450532008-12-01T13:40:22.000-06:002008-12-01T13:40:22.000-06:00sometimes in forgiving others who constantly take ...sometimes in forgiving others who constantly take you there to the same place like a summer vacation home, you know you going there, you sometimes have to either<br />1) REMOVE yourself from that situation or<br />2) CHANGE how you allow it to affect you.<br /><br />Granted, BOTH of those are easier said than done...but ultimately the only thing that may give you sanity in the midst of INsanity.<br /><br />and I got plenty mo hugs for you, babygirlSupreme Blacknesshttp://jazzdaddy64.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-38245570995732010162008-12-01T13:38:23.000-06:002008-12-01T13:38:23.000-06:00yes. it is what it is, it was what it was. they ar...yes. it is what it is, it was what it was. they are who they are.<br />accept i, even if you hate it.<br />and uh," god grand me the serenity....."<br />:D<br />lawd knows i have to remind myself hourly, sometimesNina Locahttp://ninaloca.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-79537195112924262402008-12-01T13:36:33.000-06:002008-12-01T13:36:33.000-06:00Hello my name is TNP and I'm CEO and President...Hello my name is TNP and I'm CEO and President of the I have no issues with being ALONE club. LOL<br /><br />Now granted I'm single, but I'm far from LONELY. I don't have children, but what my Mom did with us was she would say "get out!!!" LOL She had us go outside, and I made friends. I'm the biggest introvert, not that you would know it, but I'm shy and an introvert. Now my sister? She is Ms Social butterfly. She will walk up to folks say Hi, and instantly has a new friend. LOL<br /><br />My niece seems to be a lot like her Mom. She has her friends and her activities, but she also enjoys being by herself.TNP ATLhttp://tnpatl.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-70034082764642415792008-12-01T13:34:45.000-06:002008-12-01T13:34:45.000-06:00yanno, that is funny...
i really try to forgive, ...yanno, that is funny...<br /><br />i really try to forgive, really i do.<br /><br />and when i think i am over it, KABLAM ,they bring that shit right back to me and I am like damn, here i am again!! LMAO THE QUEEN ~Incomparably~http://sistahgurl.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-62531277938882322682008-12-01T13:33:36.000-06:002008-12-01T13:33:36.000-06:00*throws shoe* lmaooo*throws shoe* lmaoooTHE QUEEN ~Incomparably~http://sistahgurl.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-42416909655304193652008-12-01T13:32:54.000-06:002008-12-01T13:32:54.000-06:00I heard once that forgiveness is no longer wishing...I heard once that forgiveness is no longer wishing that the past had been different.<br /><br />Forgive Sis...yourself, your mom, your godparents, Mister. It was what it was, now make the rest of your life something else.<br /><br />Do you know how many people don't have college degrees, let alone Masters? Smile when you think about that accomplishment.erb 1http://erb1.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-18526845953322236342008-12-01T13:31:53.000-06:002008-12-01T13:31:53.000-06:00I'mma need you to get a grip - i'll talk w...I'mma need you to get a grip - i'll talk with ya lata!Madamoiselle Tealhttp://mzteal.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-38141258271530166392008-12-01T13:28:27.000-06:002008-12-01T13:28:27.000-06:00I'm a loner too, so i can understand trying to...I'm a loner too, so i can understand trying to figure out how to raise kids that aren't. <br /><br />your thanksgiving sounds a little frustrating like mine. <br /><br />does no mean no? no can mean that is a stupid question you should know the answer to.Quiet Girlhttp://quiet2girl2.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-72034465343941805402008-12-01T13:26:46.000-06:002008-12-01T13:26:46.000-06:00they are old. there isnt much you can do with old ...they are old. there isnt much you can do with old folks but stay respectful and tap dance around them. they aint gonna change. <br /><br />this is why i blog.THE QUEEN ~Incomparably~http://sistahgurl.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1116322757781337794.post-19745434879840921632008-12-01T13:23:22.000-06:002008-12-01T13:23:22.000-06:00your godparents are insane though...your godparents are insane though...Tony Agarrathttp://cosmicbrotha.multiply.comnoreply@blogger.com