Sooo... I drop the MiniMe off at school this morning and as a part of my daily dose of encouragement I say so what are we going to do today that begins with a F??? She says fffffffart! LMAOOO Damn rascal! The word was suppose to be FOCUS!!!!!

I swearsss... if I EVER get the great fortune of getting married... I would be raping my husband on the regular!!!! I'm just saying. LOLOL I am WILLING to go down for RAPE and FIRST DEGREE KIDNAPPING!!!! YESSSS!!!!! I am still STUCKKKKKK on this... thought!!!! Why??? Cuz it's morrrrrrrrrningggg... LMAOO Good Morrrrrrrrrrrrrrning MULTIPLIERSSS! TGIFFFFFFF!!!!!!

Rule 8: Just because you have to walk 2 miles uphill both ways hopping on one foot in a MONSOON to the train and catch 3 buses home does not mean your socks need to be double bagged. Yes.... I am still taking issue with that!

Rule 7: And this is the rule of ALL rules.... If you find yourself at the register with something in your hand you do not want... DO NOT.. I repeat.. DO NOT place the merchandise on the far other side of the register... in the display racks.. or anywhere else that is not in my hand with a remark simply saying that you do not want it. I am standing RIGHT HERE. Just give it to me DAMMIT!

Rule 6: when returning your merchandise... do not get mad at us because we are on to your ticket switching ways.... our system now tell us what merchandise belongs with that ticket. Acting a fool does not move me. I will bag your stuff back up, hand ...it to you and tell you to have a nice day.... all with a smile on my face. yanno... the smile that makes you wanna slap us!

Rule 5: We will not be scanning merchandise that is in your layaway. That is the risk you take when you put it on layaway. the point is... to hold your size before somebody else buys it... for REGULAR PRICE. and our regular price is 50% off of regular retail price!

Rule 3: I really don't care why you are returning your items. Really I don't care. I know you need the money back... so SPARE ME.

Rule 4: if you would like for us to get out of this recession stop listening to the financial experts telling you to ask for a discount. this is off retail folks. doesn't come much cheaper than that. especially if it has already been marked down 3 times. does AS IS mean anything to anybody?

Rule 2: Please... do not put 400 bucks worth of stuff on layaway that your are going to later delete off until you have just enough stuff to cover the amount of your minimum deposit.

Rule 1: Do not get mad with me while during your attempt to cut through a very long line and interrupt me while I am with a customer to put your precious merchandise that you are not going to buy anyway on hold when I kindly tell you to wait in the return line. It is not my fault that your job only gives you a thirty minute lunch. Shopping downtown during lunch hour is not the way to go.

Good morning Multipliers!!!! My vision is through rose colored glasses today. lets see how long it lasts! LMAO

moms sent me a link about my BP medication. LMAOO she is really in a *STATE* about this.

Homework is completed and no one is dead or arrested. We even did extra work from workbooks i bought.

Funny prank when the wife doesn't listen *FTFO*

My thighs hurt. That is all for now.

Good Morrning all! Looks like it is going to be a lovely day in Chicago. Found at yesterday at the doctor that I have high blood pressure. Shit. I am only 35. But I don't even eat that bad!!! But the coffee situation. Ohhh weee!!! LOLOL I know I don't wanna take no pills though! BUt I am scared not to cuz the doc may fuss at me some more when I go back in two weeks! LOLOL Gonna have me sitting there looking like MiniMe when she has been busted! LMAO

I LOVE THE LORD, HE HEARD MY CRY

Donnie McClurkin - We've Come This Far By Faith/I Will Trust In The Lord

imma get enough of doing stuff at the last minute. landed an appt for 3:30 this afternoon. needless to say. the job isn't PLEASED!Going in at 5 instead of 1. But in my defense, I HATE making medical appointments.The people on the phone are alwa...ys rude n seem like they WANT 2 inconvenience you! 1st available ones are always at some time damn inconvenient OR to find a good time slot you gotta wait 6 MONTHS! dahell??? and then you end up missing the appt cuz you have forgotten about it 6 months later! MiniMe's initial dentist appointment? First available appt is APRIL 2010! WTF???

Last night was NOT a good night... Between blackouts... the drama that is the MiniMe... my arm socket going out and me not being able to raise my arm (which did not sit well with trying to blow out some hair) and slowly realizing that if this arm business does not fix itself by Sunday... I can forget about the police power test! But i am blessed.... MiniMe is starting school today at the same school!!!! AND i want to thank all landlords who have 100 year old apartment buildings in Chicago and HAVE NOT updated the electrical system!!!!! That basement is CREEPY BUSINESS!!!! LOLOL

Just got home. Tired. Gotta tackle the MiniMe's hair. and I will be damned if it ain't been washed but TWICE the whoooole summer!!!!

Somebody tell me... what is it about neosporin... that you can never find it.... WHEN YOU NEED IT!!!! I got THREE tubes, and I can't find not a ONE!!!! And I can't even blame this.... ON THE MINIME!!!!! Cuz she wasn't >HERE<!!!!

I so love the principal at MiniMe's school. And I was worried for nothing! Told me he was taking my money to put me on a good foot starting the school year (400 in fees and first 2 months of tuition), forgave the after care costs for last year, and applying the balance of what I gave him (2k) to last year's tuition. God is good to me!!! did the dentist, no cavities just some issues with gums and new teeth growing in. went to urgent care for the ears... no problems there. (thank God) will be scheduling shots and physicals soon. Funny thing is, she stopped complaining about the pain in her ears when I announced I was taking her to the doctor and she feared getting shots! LMAOOO She swore her ears didn't hurt anymore! LMAOO

Good Murrrning Lovelies!!! Busy day today...gotta go beg the principal of MiniMe's school (wish me luck), go to breakast, take her to the dentist, then to the doctor for shots and then shopping for school supplies!

i live with pig pen. *sighs*

MiniMe Modeling her Maxi Dresses

She is home and I am sleeeeeeepy!!!!

I didn't get home until after 3am when i had to get up at 7 and go get The Minime! SMH@ME. the pic below shows my sleepiness. and uhhhh....

Imma have to put the baby on a diet!!!!  She has a *bulge*. Oh HELLSSSS no!!!!

what is it about the jingling of keys that makes one's bladder act a fool?

The return of MiniMe update: they couldn't board the flight due to overbooking. i have another unexpected night of freedom. whatever shall I do???? hmmmmmmm

Japanese sushi is nasty, slimy, fishy aftertaste having business!!!! Ewwwwwwwwww MiniMe comes home today!!! YAY!

Conversation i had with co-worker today. Me: your granddaughter wants to be a lawyer? Coworker: Well, she wants to be an attorney. *pauses* but i guess that is almost the same thing as a lawyer huh? Me: *blank stare*

One of those moments in which I hate not having a car.... Got home too late from work.... left to catch the bus that wouldn't be too late and missed it! a 10 minute car ride is an hour when waiting and riding for 3 buses... I didn't get to go skating. *pokes lip out*

2 days until the MiniMe comes home...

very long day today!!! worked 11.5 hours. They wait until my last week of freedom to decide to... work me like a slave!!!! If they keep this up... Imma be off on Saturday!!! And furthermore... My feet urts!!!! Thats right.... URRRRRRTSSSSSSSS!!!! this message is brought to you by CVS brand Lavender Epsom Salts!!!

Misterrrr.... has conceded.

Can somebody tell me how to fix the issue of some people not being able to comment on my blogs? I dunno what the problem is.

Let's not forget something...

...I am a victim of domestic violence.


with that being said, for those of you who may know another woman who is too a victim, it is a very hard thing to get out from under your abuser.

I freely admit, for a loooooong time, fear left me standing still. I made some bad legal choices and made things to easy for Mister when we first went to court in 2005. So busy trying not to throw gas on the flames.  see, when fear makes you still, you will do anything not to fan the flames.

so, year after year, court visit after court visit, I have allowed a special brand of fuckery to go on too long.

Now with that said, I am manning up, bit by bit. People always say that Mister has some kind of hold on me and I always deny it. but I guess in some way he does. when one has one's hands around your throat and you see that special brand of fuckery in their eyes that lets you know that they would have no problem snuffing you out.

yea... that will kinda make a bitch be still.

So, I have been testing my waters, bit by bit. slowly not allowing him to control me. since i took control from him by leaving him and getting a permanent restraining order, his only means of control is to fuck with me, make me pay money, keep me in court, delay arrival times... etc...

yes, I will continue to have the email wars with him, because the more I talk back, the more unglued he becomes because not only is he use to me succumbing to his will being done and being silent and I need to change his line of thinking... but also, I get to have documentation of his brand of madness.

No, I do not enjoy this, not one bit. It is nerve racking. but i am not having it this time.

and although I am trying to shatter battered woman's syndrome by being more vocal, I still have to recognize the fine line that he may try to snuff me out.  I can no longer allow him to think that him not bringing her back is going to make me bow down. and I am definitely not bringing him up here under false pretenses and allowing him to think one thing and spring a surprise on him later.  Not only will that make me look bad legally, but that would be just damned dangerous.

So, walk five steps in my shoes and I guarantee you, you would have bowed down too because nobody can say what they would honestly have done in my situation with a man who made his point clear when he wrapped his hand around my throat on five different occasions to the point in which I thought that that was it.

i absolutely HATE passive aggressiveness. I really hate it from people who claim to be so BIG AND BAD!!!!

For All of You who Offered to OFF MISTERRRRR for me.....

Does the offer still stand?????

Where do we start????

A couple of weeks ago, I told Misterrr that I would not be able to pay what I am suppose to pay which is half of his traveling

expenses when he comes and gets MIniMe and returns her for the tune of $300.  (don't ask, judge's orders) it is so high because he insists on driving a damn Expedition when he comes up.

Anywayss, with this looming tuition bill fast approaching and my rent still not paid for August, I simply do not have it. I just don't. Nothing I can do about it.

So, I get this email just moments ago, saying that he will be arriving on his scheduled day 4 hours earlier than originally planned. Ummm, won't be home, i have to work this Saturday, which I planned with Management when I got the original email. I have to open that day, and I won't be getting off until 4 and not arriving until at least 5:30. Can't afford to leave 3 hours earlier and lose my money. Nope, can't and will not do it!!!

7 days notice? Not gonna work...

He pulls this shit every year, be it Christmas break or summer break, changes his arrival time and throws my shit way off base. I either have to call in or call out. He did it last Christmas, told me two days before he was scheduled to arrive that he won't be coming until the day after the agreed upon date which forced me to call off from my retail job in the heat of the Christmas season! A Saturday to boot!!!!

I sent him an email saying that I will see him at 5:30pm and that no, i will not be having his money.

Let the email wars begin...

poor Saki.... over here getting MURDERED in Bones! LMAOO Yep, I am gloating! LMAOO

Julia and Julie

Rating:	★★★★★
Category:	Movies
Genre:	Documentary

We went to go see Julia and Julie today and it was GOOD!!!! Even if we were the only blacks and maybe even the youngest people at the show!!!! It looked like a casting call for COCOON and GRUMPY OLD MEN! LMAOOOOOO

Hands On: Swiss Gear Wireless Mobile Mice - Gearlog

http://www.gearlog.com/2007/08/hands_on_swissgear_wireless_mo.php
This is the worse mouse EVERRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!

when do you tell your child about the abuse you suffered at the hands of their father?

Lets see, jonesing for a smoke, day 2 completed. pms-ing and cramping all day. woke up 20 minutes before I was due at work. made it to work 50 minutes late and came to the realization that I may as well be a federal employee because the only reason why a person would get fired from my job is if they were to run out the front door with the BRINKS bag!!!! LOLOL & *sighsss*

ok, at the school to use the computer so I can print a resume for the Attorney's General office and so I went to the bathroom. No big deal right? Well I am sitting there and low and behold the damn toilet flush, which caused me momentary panic as I wondered who in the {insert cuss word >here<} got in the stall and flushed the toilet? Welcome to my brand of nuttiness. LMAOO

Good Murning.. Today is Monday, I am closing today... I am excited I finally figured out how to put music on my IPOD NANO!!! I am still in PANIC MODE and I am ready for the baby to come home! Dunno what the hell is going on down south! Imma mess around and bash Misterrr's head in and thank 'bout heaven later!

I need some washcloths and dish washing towels. somehow, they both disappear and I never have one when I need one!Where do they go exactly?